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Friday, March 22, 2019

Maybe You're Just Wrong

In recent years, with a wealth of stupid remarks and observations pointed out by the public at large on the Intarwebs and Social Media, it's come to my attention that some people among a very small percentage of the human population on this world have the idea that their ideas and thoughts can't be wrong. It has to be because of their sex chromosomes, the sexual preferences, the color of their skins, whatever. Let me frank here, and perhaps just rip the bandaid off.

You're wrong. It has nothing to do with your sex chromosomes, your sexual preferences, the color of your skin, etc.,. It has everything to do with you just being as wrong as wrong can be.

Back during the Obama years of fomenting this sort of crap, Evan Sayet, father of the Field Theory of Liberals and Everything said that Liberals will not only choose what is wrong over what is right, but they will choose the most wrong thing possible. As wrong as wrong can be, and then defend that indefensible ground with everything in them. They will defend it in the face of absolute, provable truth showing they are wrong.

Mr. Sayet, a talented comedian and writer never delves into the psychology behind that type of insanity, but I will. Because I've understood it all of my life because I grew up with a grown woman who hourly denied all reality slapping her in the face and continued to make the WORST decisions ever, forcing her daughter to care for her physically and financially. She should be grateful my sister is a much better person than I am. I would have left her under a bridge with her tenuous hold on reality, not dressed it up and given it a home.

The reason these people will hold on to a fantasy and refuse to accept reality is a deep-seated need to live the fantasy rather than accept the reality that they just might be wrong or that they've made some of the worst decisions yet recorded by history and seem to take each illogical leap on the board as a challenge they must accept. Anything to keep reality at bay.

Many times it's been pointed out to me that some of these people are mean, mean-spirited, ugly inside and out people. They are. Absolutely. It's because reality is there, it never goes away, no matter what they do. So, they become loud trying to drown it out and the cognitive dissonance is so painful in their attempt to hide from reality that they become more shrill and keep trying harder in any attempt to drown out the pain It's why alcoholism and drug abuse is so rife in that crowd. Anything to pad the landing, right?

I have a friend who is a staunch liberal. I have family members as well, but you can't really choose blood, can you? Adopted people are so lucky. Anyhoodles, this friend has my admiration because no matter what, they will argue their point. I have proved them wrong so often that I no longer bother because they ignore what is so they can grasp on what they want it to be. Nothing, and I mean nothing, discourages them So, naturally, I tease them mercilessly. It's my way of showing I care. Honestly, you never want to be met with my utter apathy.

There is something within the Liberal brain that can easily deny all truth, all reality, that tells them something they can see is something other than what is there. It's what those in the profession of watching people in padded rooms through small windows call Psychopathy. Easily triggered, these people were warehouse in formative years so their family could vacation in the Caribbean. They learned to screech and cry to get attention from uncaring "care" givers at day care. Their small minds sought ways to cope, so they created fantasy worlds where everything suited them, only to be slapped in the face with reality anytime they left it. So, somewhere, around age nine, they chose to buy buy property and live there. They were never forced to navigate relationships with their peers, never forced to deal with conflict, never, ever told they were wrong because... self-esteem. Millenials, the Participation Trophy Generation, are such a testament to this that I'm constantly amazed that it's not recognized, readily, as a psychological disease.

I said, decades ago, that we soon come a point where we would have to recognize that we'd lost an entire generation to this horror and that most parents would ever deny they allowed such a thing to happen. I know because I suffered through the years of PTA, Little League, and various other children's activities with exactly those parents. I never made a secret of utterly despising them and their wrecked children who were brats. Were my kids brats? Yes, but they knew they would pay a price for it, depending on their personality. My youngest was terrified of spankings and as a result only received a few and just one, for the biggest infractions. Then she hated being separated from her friends, and that became the leverage we needed to help her grow into a responsible adult. My other daughter doesn't care if she wins, just as long as everyone else loses. No punishment works for her. You tell her no, and she will do as she pleases. No prohibition holds her back from behaving like an utter prat. She pays for that in friendships that never are deep or last long because she wears people out. Both of my boys are stubborn, but they learned to hide their behavior well. The Marines did the rest of my work for me. They are all responsible adults in whom I am extremely proud. They work, they take care of their families and themselves.

The Liberals will never, ever achieve this because they abhor responsibility. They prefer daycare to potty train their toddlers. They prefer iPads handed to two year olds because they don't want to be bothered while watching Grey's Anatomy for the tenth time. They prefer public schooling so they don't have to bother learning anything and there is nothing at the end of that race for them. Not even a participation trophy, so why bother if they raise people the rest of the world doesn't hate? Let the day care centers and teachers raise their kids, can't you see they're busy earning a living and spending money like they actually have it?

I blame boomers. I daily remark that my own generation, the first of the GenX people are pretty grounded. It's because we got to see our parents and their stupidity, multiple marriages, complete lack of concern for anything outside themselves. I raised my kids playing outside, having a strong sense of family, which I'm still not comfortable with. I'm of the opinion that if I did not birth you and raise you, then I don't know you and don't truly want to. I don't truly like kids, even though I taught religious classes for years.  If you don't carry my DNA within a couple of generations you're on your own.

Friendships? I have less than a handful of people I consider true friends. I know, without hesitation that any of those people would help me hide the bodies, and, in point of fact, may have. I am loyal to these friends to the death because they have earned that from me. They have been there for me and I don't forget that shit. Ever.

Liberals today will turn their backs on you for using the wrong pronoun. Drink that in.

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